Mare

Credits

Location: Sanatorium, Frydenlundgata 14, 0269 Oslo
Collections:

• Sanatorium – madeinsane
• Envelope 1976
  Brands:
• Sanatorium
• Envelope 1976

Mare Xanti Dyrz (b. 1996)

Identity: Trans · Non-binary · Queer · Bi
Pronouns: They/Them

Mare Xanti Dyrz, born Martin F. Dyrseth, is a non-binary, queer individual and a proud representative of both feminine and masculine expressions. Originally from Averøy near Kristiansund, Mare spent their first 20 years in a small rural community without visible role models for authentic gender expression.

In the absence of guidance, Mare turned to the ocean and mountains as mentors, forging an internal compass rooted in nature’s wisdom. Realizing that the binary structures surrounding gender and identity didn’t reflect their truth, Mare set out on a personal journey — one that would lead to radical self-understanding and global exploration.

In 2017, they moved to Auckland, New Zealand, where they studied Māori culture, psychology, and communication at university level. That year became a turning point — a chance to reconnect with the child they once were and affirm the person they are today.

Living the Balance

By stepping into their non-binary identity, Mare claims the fluidity between masculine and feminine. For them, wearing a dress doesn’t make one a woman, nor does a suit make one a man. This insight laid the foundation for their name change and the embodiment of a gender experience not limited by external expectations — but defined by inner wholeness.

Their presence challenges norms and invites conversation. Living in Oslo, Mare has seen varied reactions to who they are and what they represent. These responses have brought both pain and pride, and ultimately a deeper sense of purpose.

Art, Advocacy & Psychology

Through their work with Mochado, Mare finds space to be vulnerable and visible — and to show others that being yourself is more than okay. After several years as an assistant store manager, Mare realized they wanted to make a deeper impact.

Today, they are pursuing a professional psychology degree at La Trobe University with the aim of helping others navigate similar journeys of identity and healing.

Their mission is clear: to help build a world where children can grow up free from gendered expectations, free to become the people they were meant to be — on their own terms.

🎙️ Read more in interview by Hanna Thevik:
http://www.hannathevik.com/mare